Dear Birthmother,
If you are reading this, we can only imagine that you are facing one of the hardest and overwhelming decisions of your life. We are sorry for what you are going through, but hope we can calm any fears you might be having during this difficult time.
My name is Alberto and my wife is Gabriela. We can understand a little of what you may be going through. My wife and I are foster to adopt parents.
We have taken many parenting classes and CPR courses. We had no idea how hard foster parenting would be. When we signed up we asked for children that
were going to be put up for adoption because we didn’t want to get attached and be heartbroken when the child had to leave.
We were given a two day old baby girl. Gabriela and I fell in love with her. We were led to believe that we would be able to adopt her. My wife and I were overjoyed and looked forward to adopting her. We took care of her for 13 months. Shortly after her first birthday on Easter Sunday, April 2022 our baby girl was removed from our home and placed back with her mother.
Giving her up was the hardest thing we have ever done, so we can only imagine how hard it is for you to consider placing your baby with complete strangers. We believe we can relate to what you are feeling, and if we are chosen we want you to know that your baby will be in great hands. Gabriela works a regular 8-5 Monday-Friday job. She is working on opening her own office to spend less time in the office and more time at home. I will be a stay-at-home dad.
Our family is excited to welcome a baby into our family. We have enough babysitters with grandparents, uncles and aunts ready to spoil a baby. We know it is hard to make this decision because it is the future of your child, by words on paper, photographs and profiles, but we promise you that we will
love, protect and care for your baby for the rest of our lives.